Who you are is not who your sexuality is. You were not created for sex. It's not the ultimate. People are told to believe that the penultimate experience of their experience is sex. If that's all you are chasing after and pursuing, then of course things start to get confusing. You are not a sexual being, you're a spiritual being. Who may or may not have a sexual experience. Your identity is not based in your sexuality. Discover more about God's plans for you and your sexuality.